November 5, 2024

7 thoughts on “Kiss This: A Celebration of So-Called “Heterosexism!”

  1. The reason there are no replies except this one is that this article, clearly, speaks for itself. The argument is so stupid that no one needs to even counter it.

    I hope beyond hope that Clara, the author, is going into public policy. With logic this idiotic, liberals everywhere are guaranteed to rule the country for a while to come!

  2. Sir, please refrain from ad hominem attacks on this forum. This is a place for intellectual discussion, not ill placed mockery. We respect your opinion, but not your attacks. Thank you.

  3. I’m tickled that weeks later there’s such a fuss about my article. Unfortunately though it doesn’t seem that any of the people complaining have actually *read* it. I chose not to bother responding to the first poster because the statement was completely inane (although I was tempted to tell him that we can’t all be gay, fabulous and from Scotland).

    As for these recent ad-hominem users who really don’t seem to get what I’m talking about, I’ll simplify: My article is not against gays or gay kissing. All I’m pointing out is (in light of the Cornell Sun’s article on the subject) is that the agenda behind DASH’s kiss-in is borderline ridiculous. Heterosexuality in society is not the problem. Gay or straight, it doesn’t matter if one chooses to kiss and grope in public — it’s not going to make people accept you anymore than they do already. But more importantly, there’s a difference between having the freedom to live as you choose vs. trying to impose your life choices on people (who were basically content to mind their own business) under the guise of some pseudo-intellectual rhetoric that sounds a> militant and b> intolerant. From what I’ve seen living in Ithaca, basically the status quo is ‘live and let live’ — and as a campus Cornell is about as chill and liberal as it gets. So as the people quoted in the Sun said, no one is exactly sure what the “protest” was attempting to accomplish, other than it being merely a plug for attention. I then went on to suggest that if you’re going to get attention, then why not focus it on more important concerns within the gay community — but I guess that went over some people’s heads. Cest la vie.

  4. I’m so glad I don’t go to Cornell! Heterosexism is deleterious in that it assumes that all people are heterosexual. The primary argument for the abolition of a heterosexist society is that it denies any room for GLBTQ individuals. That being said, the whole point of anti-heterosexist campaigns is to disrupt heterosexual exhibitionism such as the one you had at your campus. All the DASH group needed to do was to crash the party. Nothing more needed to be done. The truth is that heterosexism is more an abstract reality, and the abolishment does not necessitate the abolishment of heterosexual individuals. It does, however, seek to limit or destroy the framework that tells society, “straigt man, good; gay man, bad.” As society is made up of more individuals than just straights, anti-heterosexism tries to make salient the millions of markers of this mentality in society. Ever watch a commercial? How about a cleaning commercial? I dare you to find one where the woman isn’t demonstrating or otherwise using the product!! How about a commercial for a ED drug, do they show gay couples? How about a dominoes commercial? Do they show a gay family eating at the table? THAT is heterosexism! Once you open your eyes to it, signs, symbols, speeches, commercials, TV, radio, movies, personages, acts, EVERYTHING leaves out LGBTQ people! The rarity of a commercial with LGBTQ people is not enough for people like your school’s DASH team, that is what they are trying to tell you. Why not listen? After all, imagine if everyone ask YOU growing up why you weren’t interesting in BOYS if you’re a man, or if everyone asked why you were interested in GIRLS if you are a woman? That feeling you would get when asked, if the same one I felt when asked why I wasn’t interested in girls!!

    A little empathy goes a long way. Try to be more tolerant.

  5. A recent government survey found that 4 percent of adults aged 18-45 identified as ‘homosexual’ or ‘bisexual.’So Dominoes probably feels their money is most effective with commercials reflecting the other 96%. Stuff like the Ho(mo) kiss-in adds some fun atmosphere to the day.

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